9.7.13

Act Accordingly by Colin Wright

Hello there. I was very lucky to recently receive an advanced copy of Colin Wright's new book Act Accordingly to review. I was also given the opportunity to interview the author himself. I didn't hesitate to accept both offers and I am very pleased to share my review and interview here. 

Act Accordingly delivers a strong message in its opening lines:
YOU HAVE EXACTLY ONE LIFE in which to do everything you will ever do. Act accordingly.
'Act accordingly' is the mantra that weaves its way through this concise book. This book is like no other self-help book that I have read - Colin's message is direct but there are no rules or exercises to follow and no right or wrong responses to the book. Instead he writes about the personal philosophies that guide his life and also the insights he has gained from his many travelling experiences. By sharing his philosophies the reader is invited to question their own attitudes and values and to choose whether to act upon them or not. The chapters are as diverse as his experiences and give an insight into the open 'think outside the box' mindset that have enabled him to redefine his life and create a simple and successful life; a life that is defined by freedom. Colin Wright leads an enviable minimalistic and free lifestyle but he is hugely supportive of others' quest for self-improvement. His chapter on confidence is truly inspiring. This is what I like most about this book - it suggests that change is possible for all of us if we 'act accordingly'. Change and risk are intrinsic to self-improvement but can often paralyse us. However, this book may change your view of challenge - you may just wonder what has been holding you back for so long.


So, my interview... this was a personal challenge. My first interview... with Colin Wright....

Hi Colin.

First of all thank you for allowing me to interview you. It's a real honour to be able to share your work and views with my readers. I hope you enjoy answering my questions and can excuse my British spelling!

Hey Claire!

It's my pleasure — thanks for putting these questions together (and I actually prefer the English spelling of most words!)

Here goes:

1. Act Accordingly is a philosophical framework with a series of concise and distinct chapters that knit together providing the reader with the opportunity to explore a range of issues such as confidence, fear of failure and personal growth. The book is dedicated to “all the people with massive potential but little idea how to use it”. How do you envisage this book helping others?

My hope — and you never know how a book received, so it's just a hope at this point — is that people will take it for what it is, not what it might have been. It might have been a philosophy book, with me explaining how I see the world and convincing people they should think the same way.

That's not what I want readers to take away. Instead, I hope it's seen as a framework — a container of sorts, into which you can pour whatever philosophies make sense, and then see them more clearly, refining them into even more distinct, more perfect versions of what they started out as.

In other words, it's not my intent to convert, but instead to provide tools for folks who want to improve themselves without losing what makes them unique in the process.



2. Act Accordingly is, I believe, a deliberately short book and I gather you wrote the first draft in one day. Is this true? Where did the idea and title of the book come from?

Haha, yes, I did write it in a day, but that figure is misleading, because there were months of revising and editing and packaging that took place afterward, to make sure it was the most refined message possible; and doing that kind of work is even more difficult when you're aiming to keep things concise.

And I really did want to keep it super-short — under 100 pages, and as closer to 50 as possible — so that even people who don't read much can pick it up an ingest it in no time flat. Far more important to me than producing a book that looks like a normal book (the average page count for published books hovers around 150 pages) was producing something I thought would be useful to people, and easy to take in and share. Depending on which format you buy (ebook, paperback), Act Accordingly ended up having 60-80 pages. Not as short as I wanted to make it, but just about there!



3. This book pulls no punches. You explain that dreams are achievable but that challenge and change are essential to building a new life. I admire your honest and direct approach and find it refreshing compared to the tone of many self-help authors. Is this tough stance deliberate? 

It is, and it's not and easy one for me to take, honestly. I want to be encouraging and fluffy and happy when explaining things I'm passionate about, like developing a personal philosophy. But without that little push — the edge that comes with having a friend who isn't afraid to tell you there's spinach in your teeth — it would be a whole lot of happy words and sunshine without any action behind it. And I really, truly, want people to read the book and feel like they know what to do next. Without that hint of toughness, I don't think that would ever happen.



4. In your chapter On Confidence you suggest that confidence is about “enjoying what you have, but always striving for more”. I find this very empowering as you suggest that confidence is a journey and that being open-minded is crucial to finding confidence. I think your approach will inspire many people to believe in themselves. Have you always been confident? 

Absolutely not! And I still struggle with it sometimes, truth be told. It gets easier, and it's something I've got a solid grip on most of the time, but it is a process you're never quite done with, and as you learn more, or get better at certain skills that are important to you, every new horizon conquered brings yet another horizon — a new starting point in which you're very small again, and everything is new and scary. I define confidence in this way because it's the element that a lot of definitions leave out: that you're never simply confident in an absolute sense, you're just more confident than you've been before. And that's growth worth being proud of.



5. In previous interviews you have listed gaining knowledge and travel as your two main passions. Is writing also a passion of yours? You have an enviably relaxed but forthright style that immediately engages the reader. Have you any tips for aspiring writers out there?

I absolutely love writing, but it's really just one means of communication among many others. I also love creating art and design work, even singing and playing guitar, though that's more of a private habit than something I engage in publicly. The point there being that creativity transcends media, and if you can get a grasp of your creative side, all you have to do to jump from painting to writing to singing to interpretative dance is learn the technique. And that's the easy part — you just train and train and train!

But expressing myself and communicating is absolutely a passion, and writing is a part of that arsenal. The best advice I can offer people who want to write better is to just write a whole lot. Like, even more than you're thinking is a lot right now. Write write write, and then write some more. Don't be afraid to break rules, but know about as many of the rules as possible. Read as much as you can stand, but don't mimic those whose work you enjoy. Be yourself and allow your voice to flourish and grow with you.



6. You are an entrepreneur, author, full-time traveller and blogger. How do you manage your time and different interests?

There's a good deal of minimalism built into my philosophy, and that means I focus hardcore on the things that are important to me, and allow the unimportant things to drift away. That applies to possessions, activities, relationships, and just about everything, really. That means I can really throw myself into what's left: I've got the time, money, resources, and energy to do so, because I'm not wasting any of it. Well, as little of it as possible (like confidence, this is an ongoing process, and always will be).

So I actually have tons of free time. More than most people I know. And that means I can delegate it how I like, which some days means I meander around town, reading on park benches and taking in the landscape, while other days I'll sit in a dark room and write. Or build websites. Or design something cool. Or just draw while listening to music. It's a marvelous thing, have the freedom that comes with having control over your day. It allows you to be insanely productive, without ever getting overwhelmed.



7. What role does your blog, Exile Lifestyle, play in your life now?

It's still the central hub for my work, and I write blog posts that go there any no where else. More than anything, it's kind of the base of my online network — it's where people vote on where I move next, it's where they sign up for the newsletter, and it's where they read about the most important things I'm writing about at the moment. There are other places I write as well — Exiles, Let's Know Things, the newsletter, my books, even the stuff I post on Twitter and Facebook — but Exile Lifestyle is still square one for people who are wanting to know more about my work, or keep in touch over the long haul.



8. As a creative person, what inspires you? Where and when do feel most creative?

Novelty. New experiences and people and places and knowledge. I love knowing things and adding facts to my mental web, making connections between new information and old information I picked up elsewhere.

This is why travel is so inspirational to me. It brings me all of those things, all the time, along with plenty of time alone to process it all. I feel most creative while on a stuffy bus full of chickens and goats in the middle of nowhere. Or wandering around a new city, or experiencing something for the first time.



9. Can you tell us a little about how you came to co-found Asymmetrical Press and work alongside Joshua Fields Millburn & Ryan Nicodemus from The Minimalists. Is it right that you inspired Joshua on his minimalist journey? 

Joshua started reading my blog several years ago, and he contacted me when I was in NYC (where he was going to be visiting) to see if we could meet up. He told me he wanted to write more, and I suggested he start a blog. He was thinking about minimalism and applying it to his life even more than he had already done, and I told him that perhaps he should write about that kind of thing. The rest is history — he and Ryan started up The Minimalists and really redefined the space (for the better) in a very short period of time.

I kept in touch with them over the years, and came up with a business model that I thought could really help change the indie publishing landscape, but I knew I wouldn't be able to do it myself, so as I rolled through Ohio (where they were living at the time), I showed them what I had in mind and suggested we work on it together as partners. I wanted to partner with them because they had an amazing work ethic and very similar ideas about publishing, business, and dealing with people. They were also just genuinely nice guys, and I'd had enough of working with jerks!



10. As a minimalist what's your most valued possession? 

My cop-out answer is 'freedom'!

My answer that's more in line with what you're probably asking is my laptop. If I have a laptop, I can do anything, from anywhere. It's the one piece of equipment I need in order to survive, and if I started from scratch — no money, no other gadgets, no clothes — I could rebuild, so long as I had a computer and an internet connection.

That concept is actually what led to the cover of my first memoir, My Exile Lifestyle. Just me and a laptop!


11. Finally, after several years of travelling to different countries every four months how are you finding your current sojourn in Missoula, Montana? Are you looking forward to your next travelling challenge towards the end of the year?

I was actually really concerned about holding still this long, even though it's been about the same amount of time I spend in the countries I visit. It just seemed so strange to come back to the US for this many months, which is the longest I've spent in the country in about four years.

But Missoula is an amazing city — just the right size, with tons of culture, great food, friendly people, and a low cost of living. It's one of the more beautiful places I've been in the US or the world, and the people have been so welcoming.

I am looking forward to hitting the road again, though, and I feel great about the work we've managed to do while setting up Asymmetrical here in Montana. This is my new permanent address, too, so I'll definitely be coming back from time-to-time, enjoying the city and relaxing for a bit, after the sometimes high-octane lifestyle that I live in general.

Thanks to Asymmetric Press for this opportunity and thanks for reading my review and interview.  I'll be back later in the week with a worldwide giveaway of this book. 


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8.7.13

Minimalist Monday: Colin Wright


Some inspiration for you this Minimalist Monday. Introducing Colin Wright, a minimalist amongst other things. You may or may not have heard of him but I am going to assume you haven't. Here is a short biography of Colin.

He is a 28 year old author, entrepreneur and full-time traveller.

He studied Graphic Design and Illustration at university.

He has been running businesses since he was 19.

After graduation and a year working as a 'Creative' for a boutique production and design studio he set up his own design studio in LA and ran a very successful business.

During this time he worked very long hours (100-120 hours a week) had a long-term girlfriend and an enviable home in LA.

By mutual and cordial agreement he and his girlfriend decided to end their relationship. They planned their break up for four months in the future when they would hold a party with their friends to celebrate their relationship.

After this he set about creating a new life. This meant becoming a minimalist, deciding to travel and starting a blog Exile Lifestyle

He decided to create a vote page on his blog where readers vote for a new country for him to travel to and immerse himself in every four months.

He has travelled to Argentina, South America, New Zealand, Thailand, Southeast Asia, Cambodia, Iceland, much of the US, the Caribbean and Romania.

He recently co-founded a publishing company called Asymmetrical Press, based in Missoula, Montana, alongside Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus - who you may know from The Minimalists blog.

He is currently based in Montana before returning to travelling later in the year.

He has written ten books the latest of which is Act Accordingly.

Inspirational or what? Go check him out and stop by tomorrow to read my interview with him . And then there's my worldwide giveaway of his new book Act Accordingly later in the week. As a UK minimalist blogger I feel very honoured to be bringing you this. Can you tell?



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7.7.13

52 Weeks of Happy (40/52)





















































































































A late 52 Weeks of Happy joining in with the lovely Jen from Little Birdie. Here are my happy moments from late June and the first week of July. Some perfect summer moments.
... I'm glad I waited for the weather to warm up!

♥ Warmer weather, a heatwave, a hot spell - call it what you will - it's here in the UK! Yippee! After a BBQ on Friday we have eaten most meals, including breakfast and many, many strawberries outside. Sitting outside in the evening sipping wine and chatting instead of watching TV feels very chilled and European - like we're abroad or camping.
♥ Glasto on the BBC watched on the iPad (in the garden) and on TV late into the night. There was superb coverage this year from the big names to many lesser names. The Rolling Stones were in superb form - a bit frayed around the edges but just awesome. We also loved Jake Bugg, Kenny Rogers, Chic, Rodriguez, I am Kloot, Ed Harcourt, First Aid Kit, the Mumford's encore (with friends) and The XX. We're still enjoying the Glastonbury afterglow as we catch up with the many acts on the i player.
♥ My Dad's birthday - lovely to spend some time with my Dad and my family as we celebrated his 77th year. These marguerite flowers are from my parents' garden. I love them.
♥ Watering my plants in the early morning. Stepping outside early in the day to water my plants is a simple pleasure not to be rushed. Just taking in the fresh air and feeling the promise of a new day relaxes me. A very tiny watering can helps prolong this peaceful activity. I must add this to many simple pleasures list on my sidebar. 
♥ Ooh and a fifth happy - 77 years later and we have a British Wimbledon champion. Those last few points were exhausting! Murray and the rest of the country can relax now :)

Be happy xo



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6.7.13

Barbecue Summer













































With the mercury soaring since the middle of the week and with hints of a fine weekend we began to plan a barbecue for a Happy Friday get together with family. An assortment of bunting set the outdoor vibe. 
























Nothing too gourmet - simple salads, barbecued veg, tandoori chicken and a few sausages were our barbecue fare.























I had plenty of wine chilling in the fridge and a chilled Hubs too!

 Axe at the ready Hubs and youngest son chopped wood for the fire pit.
























We barbecued a few things on the fire pit, cooked some spuds in the oven and enjoyed a rare treat in the UK - eating outdoors in the evening without feeling cold.

























Birds sang, the air was still and there were tiny pink wisps in the sky. As it grew darker we were drawn to the fire even though we didn't feel cold. You have to sit around a fire pit though, don't you? And you have to toast something. Our youngest toasted bread and hubs toasted us with his Jack Daniels.























































Glowing embers, flickering flames and candlelight warmed my soul. Helloo summer!

























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5.7.13

June Scavenger Hunt

Hello there! My monthly scavenger post always seems to start with an apology and this month is no exception as I am even later posting June's photos than previous months. Some photos have been taken in June, a few are from my archives (pre blogging life) and some have been hurriedly shot this week morning. Strawberries and ice cream for breakfast anyone? Try it - it's delicious.

Anyhow, as ever I had fun putting this collection together and hope you enjoy them! Thank you Greenthumb and go check out some of the other collections posted. I've really enjoyed looking at all of them.

So... June's twelve photos.

Purple. Seen at a recent flower festival these purple alliums set against a Georgian window were stunning.


















































60. A setting on my washing machine but one which I rarely use.
























Little. A tiny cupcake eaten at the same flower festival.
























Eyes. My brown eyed boy.
























Animal. My in-laws' beautiful cat at play.
























Architectural detail. The iconic Selfridges building in Birmingham.
























Ring. A favourite ring and earrings.
























Light. Lanterns lit in the evening.
























Rooftops. A street of rooftops with St. Ives bay beyond.




















































Ice cream. A summer treat - strawberries and ice cream.
























A tombstone. My beloved grandparents' headstone.


Art. Street art in Ibiza.


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2.7.13

Summer Giveaway Winner...














































Congratulations Ada Bea from the wonderful Vintage Sheet Addict blog (just celebrating her first blog anniversary -whoop, whoop!) on winning my Sarah Raven summer giveaway.

Thank you everyone for entering and commenting. I sent you all a little good luck wish as I wrote your names on each tiny heart. I so enjoyed reading the descriptions of your simple summer pleasures but sadly there can only be one winner. Thank you to Sarah Raven's team for the lovely prize. 

Please get in touch with me by email Ada Bea so that Wild Flowers: A sketchbook can be sent to you direct. I hope you enjoy it. A perfect blog anniversary pressie, don't you say? And I agree with you the blog community is wonderful and fun!

Thank you all for reading, following and leaving such interesting comments.



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1.7.13

Minimalist Monday: Don't Go Chasing Happiness


























I love this Thoreau quote. It hangs in the holiday cottage we stay at in Cornwall and I just had to photograph it on our last visit. It reminds me that happiness is not a final destination we may one day reach or a rare state exclusive to the few. Happiness is actually more achievable than we think if only we can change our view of it. It's about enjoying the journey of life and finding moments of joy along the way.
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Today I stumbled across an interesting BBC article which suggests we can become happier if we change our attitude. 
Can we make ourselves happier? According to studies from all over the globe collated by the World Happiness Database in Rotterdam, we can. But the path to happiness may not be where we are looking for it.
Results from the project suggest that goal setting isn't always the route to happiness. Some factors affecting your happiness such as where you live and your relationship status are not easy to change but others are. Suggested ways to happiness include:


  • Leading an active life at work and in our spare time.
  • Developing an appreciation of happiness as we gain life experiences.
  • Doing less of what doesn't make you happy – ditching the chores sometimes and making more time for relaxation and interests instead.
  • Not judging yourself too harshly – look for the beauty in yourself just as others do. Accept those compliments and believe in them. Accentuate your strengths and accept we all have imperfections.
  • Accepting you can't be happy all of the time. Learn from the lows in your life.
  • Focusing on the quality of your relationships not how many friends you have.
  • Considering the relationship between the stresses of your job versus the pay you receive. For example, is the time spent commuting to work worth the pay?

It's definitely a good read and makes many more good points. I'd love to know what you think. 

Do we set ourselves too many goals because we're unhappy? Or can goal setting be useful in creating a happier life? Is happiness actually within our grasp only we're too focused on our perceived unhappiness that it escapes us?



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